Consultancy for INGOs & governments

Human rights expertise from BOTH SIDES of the table.

Human rights expertise from BOTH SIDES of the table.

Human rights expertise from BOTH SIDES of the table.

I worked as a diplomat for the Dutch government, and lobbied at the UN for LGBTI rights. Now I help international organisations working on human rights, SOGIESC and SRHR build capacity, prove their impact, sharpen their strategy, and keep their teams talking when it gets hard.

WORKED WITH AND FOR

Equal Rights Coalition
Hivos
Radboud Universiteit
COC Nederland
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FEATURED WORK

TOOLKITS FOR DIPLOMATS

TOOLKITS FOR DIPLOMATS

CO-AUTHOR · 40+ COUNTRIES

The ERC Toolkit for Diplomats

The ERC Toolkit for Diplomats

The ERC Toolkit for Diplomats

Commissioned by COC Netherlands and the Equal Rights Coalition, I co-authored a practical guide for diplomats on engaging safely and effectively with LGBTI civil society. It's available to diplomats of all 40+ ERC member states and comes with an e-course and a webinar I developed for the full coalition.

AUTHOR · IN DUTCH

LGBTI Toolkit for Dutch Diplomats

LGBTI Toolkit for Dutch Diplomats

LGBTI Toolkit for Dutch Diplomats

Written for the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs: a practical guide, in Dutch, for diplomats working on LGBTI rights.

Both toolkits are for internal use. Happy to tell you more about the approach in a call.

MOVEMENT MEDIATION & FACILITATED DIALOGUE

When the team STOPS TALKING

Movements run on conviction. That's their strength, until conviction turns colleagues into opponents. Sometimes a well-facilitated dialogue is enough to get people talking again; sometimes a team needs mediation. I use Deep Democracy to bring every voice into the room, including the minority view nobody dares to say out loud, so a team can disagree and still work together.

FROM PRACTICE

I mediated in a team that could no longer talk to one another after sharply divided views on Israel and Palestine, with some members far more activist than others. After three sessions, the team agreed on how to handle the topic at work, and started collaborating again

  • Diplomat at the Dutch Permanent Representation to the OECD; Coordinator Diversity & Inclusion at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs
  • Managed a €34M portfolio of strategic partnerships at the ministry
  • Lobbied the UN, OSCE and EU for LGBTI rights at COC Netherlands
  • Co-developed the Theory of Change for a five-year, €18.3M strategic partnership
  • Author of Actie!, a book on activism · Yale Global Justice Fellow · Research Master in Political Philosophy (cum laude)

How we work

From first message to work in progress

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Tell me what you need via the form below.

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We have a free 30-minute intake call.

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You receive a tailored proposal within a week.

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We get to work.

PICK MY BRAIN

Need a sharp second opinion? Or a quick brainstorm?

Need a sharp second opinion? Or a quick brainstorm?

One hour, one focused question. Testing an advocacy strategy, reviewing a Theory of Change, preparing for a donor meeting, figuring out how to approach an embassy. Send me your question when you book, and I'll come prepared.

One hour, one focused question. Testing an advocacy strategy, reviewing a Theory of Change, preparing for a donor meeting, figuring out how to approach an embassy. Send me your question when you book, and I'll come prepared.

€175

incl. VAT · paid when booking

YOUR QUESTIONS,
answered.

Not sure what to expect? These answers will help.

What kind of organisations do you work with?

Mostly international NGOs working on LGBTI rights, SRHR, peacebuilding and mediation, but also governments, funds, coalitions and universities. If your work is related to human rights and you're not sure I'm a fit, just ask.

What kind of organisations do you work with?

Do you work remotely?

Yes, and on-site in the Netherlands or abroad when the work calls for it. Trainings and mediation usually work best in person; advice and reviews work fine online.

Do you work remotely?

Which languages do you work in?

English, Dutch and Spanish. I understand French and German.

Which languages do you work in?

What does it cost?

Every project is different. After a free intake call, you'll receive a clear proposal with a fixed price, so there are no surprises halfway through.

What does it cost?

Is what we discuss confidential?

Yes. Especially in mediation, people need to know that what they share stays in the room. I'm happy to sign an NDA if your organisation needs one.

Is what we discuss confidential?

Let's talk about your PROJECT.

Tell me a little about your organisation and what you need. I'll get back to you within two working days.